The Awakened Leader

3 Month Deep Rest & Resilience program for Leaders, CEO’s, Executives and Solo/Entrepreneurs

Welcome message, orientation and course overview

I’m so glad you chose this journey of self-discovery and mastery…

Welcome. This is going to be BIG. Epic, in fact. We’re going on a three-month journey to fundamentally and permanently change your perspective on resilience, time, attention, focus, insight, and creativity. Life will never look the same again, in the best of ways.

This landing page is designed as a resource to orient you toward the course content, give you information on our weekly group calls, and how you go about setting up your coaching calls with James each week.

Weekly Mentoring & Accountability Group Calls:

2nd, 3rd, 4th Monday Of The Month 6.30-7.30 pm GMT & 1st Friday Of The Month 6.30-7.30pm GMT

Each week, you’ll have the opportunity to meet as a group to explore themes from the program, ask questions and spend time with your peers. Share your successes and challenges, and make meaningful commitments toward a deeper understanding and practice of the program content.

You are not obliged to attend these meetings, but it is highly recommended:

  • Being with your peers can help break the feeling that you are alone with the challenges you face

  • You’ll likely find inspiration from others in the group and learn from their challenges, as you bring your own

  • It is important to be accountable! Working with a group can support this. It all about showing up and being seen

  • This is a great moment to ask questions about the general course content and experience Mentoring

  • These calls differ from the approach of Coaching (please see the section on Coaching for more information)


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Weekly Coaching Calls:

1 hour of dedicated coaching each week

Along with our group calls each week, you have the opportunity to book a personal coaching call.

Founded on an age-old tradition of being present, open and curious with a guide or mentor, and backed by a modern neuroscience-based protocol, these sessions explore personal, emotional or relational challenges. The approach is a powerful way to meet ourselves at a psychological level, while being distinct and different to traditional psychology. People who participate in these sessions regularly report significant breakthroughs and powerful insights.

The reasons you might want to do this are:

  • Explore a road block around motivation, self-doubt, procrastination

  • Challenge one of the three main beliefs that get in the way of resting: time, guilt or fear of missing out

  • Bring some less-defined but still troublesome road block to your progression through the course content

  • Co-meditate together simply out of curiosity! this often unearths something important, even if things are going well!

Course Content

The course is divided into 5 modules/pillars, each building on the previous. We will explore each module over a three-week period, and each week, you’ll be given certain practices, meditations, Non-Sleep Deep Rest sessions and inquiries to take you toward mastery of the content. Non of this content will be overwhelming. You’ll be given practices that support your time, not take from it.

As we journey through the program together, I will be taking your feedback as to what has worked and been effective. I’ll also be listening to what you want and need. In this way, the content may morph, change and grow as we move through our time together. What follows is an outline for our time together.

Modules

  • Pillar 1 - Master Tranquility 

  • Pillar 2 - Unwavering Resilience

  • Pillar 3 - Positive Intuition

  • Pillar 4 - Visionary Genius 

  • Pillar 5 -Steadfast Fortitude

Module 1 - Master Tranquility

From Overwhelm to Wellbeing: understand the neuroscientific discovery of the ‘Default Mode Network’ and how our brains are naturally wired to keep vigil for threats. 

Flipp Your Thinking: Explore practices that are research-proven to transform negative and recursive loops of thought and promote a deep sense of well-being. Discover how these practices pave the way for easy access to deeper rest.

Get Out Of Your Head. Our minds constantly produce thoughts, and it’s very hard to stop it. When we pay attention to body sensations, a natural transition from thinking to feeling takes place. Learn to exchange unending trains of thought for a deeply restful experience of inhabiting your physicality. Dissolve physical tension and learn how to rest the mind. 

Unwavering attention. Building on modules 1,2 and 3, learn to establish a steady and stable flow of concentration. Get over common pitfalls that create frustration by establishing a middle ground of relaxed effort, allowing for easy and accessible one-pointed focus. 

The Depths Of Being. We all knew how to ‘be’ when we were young children, yet as adults, we’re not taught how to value the art of doing nothing. Break down self-judgments and ideas about time and value and rediscover your most rested self. 

Module 2 - Bulletproof resilience

Stress triggers. Stress is defined as a perceived inability to cope. By exploring what our personal triggers are, we can unravel from learned helplessness and gain self-mastery. 

Upside Of Stress. Explore how nervous systems are wired to cope with certain amounts of stress. Find strength through harnessing stress. Explore a counterintuitive and little know approach to transform stress into an advantage. 

Reprogram overwhelm. Too much for too long can leave us feeling flooded and unable to cope. Beliefs that we hold to be true about this further disrupt our natural coping mechanisms. Explore psychology and the use of opposites to instill a new belief system. You can cope. 

Stepping Out. Cognitive problem-solving has its limits. Taking moments amidst overwhelm to gain perspective, gives room for new insight. Learn science-based micro-meditations that build neural plasticity.

Uninterrupted Core. Whilst our bodies, minds, and nervous systems can feel overwhelmed, there’s always part of our experience that is utterly at peace, in every moment. Discover the part of you that’s never stressed!

Module 3 - Positive Intuition

Self Trust. Build a set of personal affirmations that are touchstones amidst moments of doubt and uncertainty. Create strong psychological foundations on which to build inner knowing and conviction. 

Objective thinking. Learn to manage thoughts and break thinking down into neutral, negative, positive, and instructive. By taking perspective on the thinking mind, learn to gain distance and choose response over reactivity.

Interrupting self-doubt. Negative thinking and deep-rooted beliefs can interrupt our access to self-trust. Unlock core beliefs through a 5 step system of personal inquiry. 

Emotional Intelligence. Emotions fall into two camps, positive and negative, yet all emotions are instructive. Learn to listen to and distill the wisdom from feelings and move from overwhelm to integrity. 

Intuitive Knowing. Our rational mind makes up -at best -  10% of our mental processing. Accessing deeper knowing comes from relaxing our cognitive processes and getting in touch with this huge information storehouse, that lies just beyond the surface of thought. Trust in your hunches! 

Module 4 - Visionary Genius 

Learn from the masters. Throughout history, both creative and scientific geniuses have consistently exploited contemplative traditions to gain insight and creativity. Find out who, and how. 

The best-kept secret about genius. Our minds produce different bio-rhythms depending on our state: waking, sleeping, and dreaming. The hypnogogic state bridges all of these. Learn how to quickly access this and upgrade your genius. 

Hypnogogic phenomenon. Our bodies and minds produce certain responses to this state, such as waking dreams, images, sounds, and bodily reactions. Learn which is friend and foe, and how to distill insight.  

Developing insights: Tricks and tips on deepening moments of insight and keeping your ‘aha moments’ close, so you can build and foster them into big ideas. 

Bring it to your team: share your new-found knowledge to create top-down change, and learn how to bring insight into the boardroom to deepen group creativity. 

Module 5 - Steadfast Fortitude

Discover your Superpower. The same recognition lives at the heart of every contemplative tradition - our deepest experience is untroubled, calm, quiet and at ease - in every moment. Accessing this can be challenging. Learn simple yet profound ‘pointing out’ instructions that take you immediately and effortlessly to this deep well-spring of stillness. 

Beyond Activity. Learn how you don’t always need to take action to be at peace. Having built your way to resilience and deeper creativity, you now know how to ‘do this’ without doing anything at all. Set yourself free of technique for the deepest meditative experience. 

Open Hand. Let go of acquiring a certain ‘state’, in order to discover it. By losing expectations and surrendering all outcomes, paradoxical deep rest arrives. 

You don’t need to know! Give up knowing and figuring anything out. By letting go of thinking and developing ‘not knowing’, return to innocence and be fresh and present. 

Regaining time. By releasing the need to be anywhere: the past, the future, or the ‘now’, discover a super-charged meditation practice that’s easy and effortless. Leave all those other ‘meditators’ behind! 

No self. The most constant and perennial thought is that of ourselves. Yet, it is only a thought. Deep moments of meditation can spontaneously arise as we challenge and go beyond this narrative and discover our true selves as free of any self-talk and identity. 

Additional Resources To Support The Program

Recommended Reading - The Book Of Rest, 2019, Harper Collins:

  • Available in Hardcover or Paperback from Amazon, or Harper Collins

  • Also available on Audible (recommended, as you can practice laying down and doing nothing!)

Recommended resources:

  • If you don’t have some already, we recommend a good pair of headphones, ideally, the kind that blocks the noise out as well as adds sound in (so over-ear headphones, rather than in-ear)

  • Set yourself up with a Rest-Nest! Start looking out for places at work or at home where you can take a cheeky cat nap or sit quietly and practice. You’re not looking for perfect, just somewhere that lends itself to rest. You could decide to convert your office, get a new comfy chair or simply lie down on the floor where ever you are (that’s hard on the bus or train, but still possible!)

  • Get the support from the people around you: we’ll be covering this in the introductory module in more depth, but for now, consider letting the people around you know that you are taking a new personal development program and it will require you to find parts of your day to be quiet and practice. Share with them your heartfelt reasons for engaging in this program and get their buy-in, helping you to surmount one of the first hurdles of rest: guilt!